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5 Dates She’ll Hate
By Tommy Jordan

So you’ve tried all your 31 flavors and you’ve finally decided which one you want to go to Relationship Land with. Well, before you get in too deep, you need to set an early precedent for how things will go.
Setting standards in a relationship is a lot easier said than done -- particularly when it comes to the amount of time you spend together. In a relationship's early phases, the two of you will want to spend every waking hour in each other’s company. That’s fine in the beginning, but the reality of the situation is that, within a few months, you’ll be too afraid to ask her to let you play the newest Xbox 360 game with your boys. She’ll expect you to spend all your time with her the way you did in the beginning, and you’ll lose your friends and your personal time.
So how do you shake a girl who's accustomed to your constant company without compromising the relationship in the process? Suggest activities you know she'll hate!
The following five dates are things you’ll do with her only once; afterward, you’ll be able to enjoy your personal freedom without insulting her in the least. The fact is that she simply won't want to come along to all your "fun activities" anymore.

1- Ask her to go paintballing with you
While she may like wearing the costume and playing dress up at first, it won’t take more than a couple of yellow and red paintballs to the face before she is heading back to the truck. By the time the swelling goes down and the bruises start to show, she’ll be telling you that she's fine with you doing this on your own next time.

2- Take her hunting
Invite your girl for some outdoor activities, but instead of going on a hike and having a romantic lunch by a stream, take her fishing or hunting. Give her a handful of slimy worms for bait and let her know it may take hours before you get a bite. Tell her she’s in charge of gutting the fish if you catch something. You can also surprise her by using that cute little bunny rabbit she is admiring as target practice with your double barrel shotgun. The next time you invite her to the great outdoors, she’ll be sure to make up an excuse.

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3- Suggest a sci-fi marathon
Grab all six Star Wars movies and the complete series of Firefly on DVD, and invite her over. Anakin Skywalker and Joss Whedon may be your masters, but they certainly won’t be hers. She’ll be calling her girlfriends and watching her girl movies with them instead, and you’ll have the day to do whatever you want.

4- Make her play video games
If she wants to go low key by staying home, tell her you think it’s a great idea since you’ve been wanting to play Battlefield 2 for weeks now. After all, both of you believe terrorism is bad, right? And what better way to spend time together than by blasting people’s faces off? If you can say, “A couple that kills terrorists together stays together” with a straight face, you’ll be sure to have an evening that is girlfriend-free.

5- Spend Saturday watching cartoons
Tell her you want to do something that will work on your parenting skills. What better way is there to train at becoming an awesome dad than by watching Scooby-Doo all day long? She’ll be so bored that you’ll have the next three Saturdays all to yourself, guaranteed.
less quantity, more quality As you get further and further into the relationship, you will have to start shaving off the amount of time you spend together in order to maintain a level of sanity. You will need time with your buds, time for your career and some time alone in order for you to fully enjoy your time with her. But, like a habitual smoker, you don’t want to cut her off cold turkey.
Emphasize that the time you spend together should be more about quality over quantity. Blame having to go out with your friends on your friends, such as: "They're giving me grief for not chilling with them in so long.” Or talk about how you’re so busy with school and work, both of which you must do well to ensure a better future for the two of you. No girl has ever dumped a guy for working too hard in an effort to secure a better future for her.
push her away... gently Getting her to spend less time with you is like making a fine meal: It’s all in the presentation. If you present these activities to her in a confident, funny way, you have a chance. But if you don’t have faith in what you’re saying, she won’t have faith in you, and soon you won’t be able to use the bathroom without asking her permission. So get your paintballs ready.
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